dominant

Thu
20
Dec

Let’s Start from the Top. Or is it Bottom?

Source Website: Fearless Press: Poly Articles

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“I want to be a dominant! People tell me I should start out as a submissive. Is that right?” Let’s start by taking a look at two reasons why people might suggest this idea. More so in early days of the public and organized BDSM scene, many saw a hierarchy of ranks between dominants and [...]

Author Name: 
Sea
Fri
09
Mar

Temper temper temperament~

Source Website: Alphasiren's Blog

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As I move through the journey of being in an open marriage, life seems to be throwing some significant cosmic 2x4s square at my psyche~ As I peel back the layers, some lovely and some ancient gnarled knots, I am learning some deep lessons about myself.

One thing that has been puzzling me is the concept of my free will vs. my temperament.

First you should know your temperament. For those of you that need a refresher:

tem·per·a·ment~ noun

Author Name: 
alphasiren
Tue
15
Nov

Poly D/s – BDSM In Open Relationships

Source Website: Life on the Swingset

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A comment came to me on the last blog that I posted in regards to general BDSM. Jack Junior wanted to know if there was room for an Open relationship in the BDSM community. I informed Jack, that yes, yes there is Virgina, in fact, a Santa Clause. I am happy to report that even

Author Name: 
CJ Doe
Mon
31
Oct

In The Interest of Knowing – Introduction to a BDSM Switch

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When many of you read my blog, you may ask yourself, “Who is this person with the big ideas and the obviously fake name?” Perhaps a simple explanation of my BDSM lifestyle experience will help you a bit. It maybe relative to some of you, and it may not. That’s okay. It will not change

Author Name: 
CJ Doe
Mon
03
Oct

Novice Dominant

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By Sarah Sloane Dear Sarah, I am a novice dominant and I’m interested in finding a submissive; I’ve been trying to get to know people at my local munch group (as well as online) but I’m having trouble with finding someone special. Some people treat me like I don’t know anything because I’m young (I’m [...]

Author Name: 
SarahSloane
Mon
26
Sep

Birds of a Feather: Swinging and Kink

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Plenty of swingers like a little slap and tickle. If you’ve ever had a playmate begging to be treated like a slut in the heat of the moment, you’re already one of us. You’ve engaged in what we call “humiliation play.” If you’ve ever enjoyed a slap to the ass while getting fucked, you’ve engaged in pain play. We communicate about this stuff with a depth of understanding which causes us to need a big vocabulary that can seem very intimidating from the outside

Author Name: 
JV Altharas
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